Dynastic Trust: Advice to The Woman My Little Girl Will be.

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1. Use your advantage to help others instead of hurt them. Other than in sporting... Never do anything that puts others at a disadvantage.

2. In matters of great importance, the best response is offered after emotion and suspicion yield to reason and logic. Wait one day to respond to anything that makes your face hot.

3. Never Ever Ever Ever Ever Give Up. The fear of falling is often more debilitating than the fall itself. It is in falling that we realize our resilience.

4. Asking for help is not a sign of weakness. It shows you recognize the importance of a task.

5. Sometimes doing nothing is a lot...but when you move, move with purpose.

6. Full Hands In. Full Hands Out.

7. Just tell the truth & never put a price on your principles.

8. Do more than the minimum. 

9. Ski, Surf, Walk, Drive, Ride, Fly & Live in a predictable fashion whenever there are others behind or around you.

10. If you think you can, you will. If you think you can't, you won't.

11. The most Important things you will ever say: "After you", "Please", "Thank You", "I Love You" and "I'm Sorry".

12. Go to bed early. You will accomplish more before others wake than you will after they've gone to sleep.

13. Never drink more than one cocktail with subordinates or superiors. 

14. Dissenting opinions and unpleasant news should only be voiced if some significant good can come of it. Displaying one's level of intelligence or social connectivity does not constitute a "significant good".

15. Those who control others are strong. Those who control themselves are powerful...and more attractive. 

16. It's better to be wrong and alive, then right and dead.

17. Stand back when waiting for an elevator. If you give people enough space to exit first, there'll be more room for you to enter afterwards.   

18. Never write, text, email or post anything on-line that you wouldn't want to air as a commercial during the Super Bowl.

19. The power in hate, greed, negativity and jealousy is in it's ability to distract you. Don't let it. Never lower yourself to the level of those who thrive on such things. They say misery loves company...and there will always be people who are stressed, overwhelmed and/or unhappy with themselves. Never let them influence your opinion of yourself....because they will definitely try. And be as kind to them as possible. Not because they deserve it but because you are kind.

20. All the world's ills (other than those resulting from chemical or psychological imbalance) can be traced back to poor parenting and/or poor education. Never stop learning! 

21. A person's character is not so easily measured in times of comfort and advantage. The more accurate measure of one's character is taken in the most threatening of times... when weakness is most likely to triumph. Even then, character is not found in one's faults or folly but in the methods and sincerity with which they redeem themselves...and those they've failed.

22. Great intelligence demands even greater patience. 

23. Drugs are a distraction from: doing what truly makes your heart happiest, discovering the most beauty that life has to offer and knowing what day it is...additionally, it makes bad ideas seem like decent ones. 

24. Listen carefully first. There's a difference between "letting someone else talk" and "listening". The former requires you to simply close your mouth. The latter requires you to open your mind.

25. When no rule exists, do the right thing. There's always an opportunity / It's never too late to do the right thing.

26. Never buy a house: at the bottom of a hill, near a body of water, with a flat roof or quickly built.

27. There's nothing worse than a bully. Stand up for yourself... and those who can not stand up for themselves.

28. Sustained actions speak louder than words.

29. Never underestimate anyone...especially yourself.

30. In life, there will always be positives and there will always be negatives. Your attitude is driven by which you choose to focus on each and every day. It’s not what happens to you that matters; it’s how you choose to respond. Read "The Road Less Traveled".

31. Everything is relative. Everyone's perspective is their reality. (i.e, Never recline a seat in coach when someone is seated behind you.)

32. Everything is on it's way somewhere. Nothing "goes away" and nothing can be "thrown away".

33. Quality work is expensive. Cheap work costs even more.

34. Be mindful of the ease with which an unintended tone can be imparted to the written word of another. Read "The 5 Minute Manager".

35. Mistakes and inconsistencies are where the natural beauty lies. There is no such thing as "perfect".

36. The Platinum Rule: Treat Others as They Want To Be Treated.

37. Nothing great is ever accomplished alone. You can teach most anyone a skill... but you can't teach anyone personality and character.

38. Make time to be still and quiet in nature...then dance in the rain and let yourself get soaked! It's good for the soul.

39. If you're having a problem with a person or situation, look at your own behavior first...and then look at your own behavior again.

40. Treat every one & every place like a campsite... Leave them a little better than you found it.

41. Exercise is the ultimate antidepressant...and greatest tailor. 

42. When facing any catastrophe, ask yourself: "How much will this matter in 20 years?".

43. Collaborate with experienced people from all different walks of life. The cross-pollination between passionate people from various disciplines enables real innovation to flourish.

44. Be Kind. For everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle... hidden or not. 

45. Boys will break your heart (especially when you forget how wonderful your are). Let them. Learn from it.

46. Stop calling him. Stop texting him. Stop saying things you hope he will hear. If he wanted you, and deserved you...he'd be there.

47. Bellybutton piercings and tattoos are always bad ideas. Self-acceptance is the coolest accessory.

48. Life begins where your comfort zone ends. Be carefree...but don't be careless.

49. Time doesn't heal all wounds...but it does allow for more experiences which, in turn, yield a different perspective.

50. Don't let anyone define your self-worth...not even him.

51. Trust your instincts...but rely on the fact that most people let down their guard after 6 months.

52. Be grateful & love with everything you've got as I love you. No matter what... forever and beyond. 

53. Read the directions and check your references.

54. Study Immanuel Kant’s Moral Philosophy namely… Categorical and Hypothetical Imperatives & The Formula of the Universal Law of Nature.

55.  Listen to The Beatles. There's a lot of wisdom in their simple lyrics and they can be a good "home away from home".

56. Do everything to the best of your ability with the time allotted.

57. Respect yourself enough to walk away from anything that no longer allows you to grow.

58. Seeing the good and building on it is always more productive than seeing the bad and trying to change it.

59. In life, you will encounter plenty of "sharks". When you do, summon up all of your strength and punch it in the snout. It will most likely turn and swim away.

60. Always consider the source of the information you receive and the food you eat. Your interests may not be aligned and your motivations may not be similar.  

61. Resist the notion that there is more hate in the world than love. Although some may profit by magnifying it or by drawing your attention to it - it simply isn't true.

62. AIM TO SAVE 30% SPEND 60% & SHARE 10%.

63. Clean tools work better.

64. The best ideas come from wide exposure.

65. Travel is fatal to ignorance and prejudice.